
What attracts people to each other ?
Are there universal standards for physical attraction?

This
article clearly discussed some features what attracts to men and women. And as
for Barney Stinson in How I Met Your Mother what attracts him the most are the
waist to hip ratio because he always says “God Forbid that she’s FAT”.. And
well built, Barney always looks for better featured woman even though he
already has one.
Another article that I’ve read is The Attractiveness Stereotype and Barney’s“Crazy-Hot” Scale by Dr. Sadie Leder. This article claims that Beautiful people are believed to be better on a number of points of view and are thus treated accordingly. For most of us, this happens outside of our awareness and interestingly, even young children show these preferences and biases. Like it or not, one of the most influential factors in romantic attraction is physical attractiveness. That’s right, hotness! Psychologists’ refer to this beauty bias as the “attractiveness stereotype,” and for decades they’ve shown that people have a tendency to assume that those who are physically attractive are not only desirable because they’re hot, but also because they are believed to possess a number of other socially desirable traits.
In one of the episodes of How I Met Your Mother Barney explains his “crazy-hot” scale, whereby
a man tolerates a woman’s craziness only to the extent that it is offset by an
equal level of attractiveness. In a very matter of fact fashion, he recounts to
his friends his past dating conquests, explaining that moderately hot women
were allowed to be only moderately crazy, whereas very hot partners were
granted excessive toleration for their craziness. Although his friends may not
endorse his self proclaimed theories, Barney referred to Ted and his current girlfriend
(referred to only as “Blah Blah”) is a perfect example of not only Barney’s
point or this article.
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